If the boyfriend lives in a mom hotel, what to pay attention to?
The term Mom Hotel is probably typical only for the Czech population. At least we created it ourselves. What does it mean? A grown man who still lives with his mother. Of course, the age limit, when this variant of cohabitation began to become strange, not strange, is a controversial topic.
But consider the fact that we begin to see men who are already over 30 years old. It\’s fascinating, we understand, there are intense experiences for weeks of dating and building relationships. But suddenly we found out that the young man still lives with his mother.
What is the reason for this? Whether it\’s an emotional attachment that is very alarming in this age, or an economic aspect that might warn us about something, other factors also play a role. Which are they? What should be taken into account and what should be taken into account if you get together with a man who is accustomed to the warmth of the house and the love of his mother too long?
·Emotional connection.
Of course, there is a certain emotional engagement between each son and mother. There is no doubt about it. But in the life of every person, undoubtedly, there should be that moment when he decided to become independent. He decided to stand on his 2 legs and live alone or with a partner. If he is at home beyond this period, he risks himself and others.
*Economic factors.
We do not lie to ourselves, living with a mother is simply the cheapest option. Not only does he usually not want rent from his son, but he also often makes sure that he always has a full refrigerator, a bathroom with all the hygiene products and all this is free.
·Laziness.
Among other things, certainly the strongest factor is that your boyfriend is simply lazy. He is lazy enough to pay his rent, clean up after himself, wash his clothes, cook and take care of himself. He is so accustomed to the stereotype of the house that he does not want to get used to anything else. He doesn\’t have enough willpower to do anything about it, so he stays in a safe place to do so. Under my mother\’s skirt.
· Loss of privacy.
The tricky factor in this form of cohabitation is that a mother is used to having a company at home, whether or not her son wants it, just as a son is used to having his mother do everything at home and live like a cotton ball. He asks questions, when he leaves the house, when he returns, why he returned later than usual yesterday, who he sees with, what he is a friend, of course, even his partner will not remain a secret for a long time. Some mothers ask more, others ask more, but they are all equally curious. Pay attention to the places you are going to visit.