First, I\’ll show you how happy I am!So what could that possibly prove in the first place? Definitely a new man. Because with him by my side, I can finally start living what went wrong in my marriage and catch up. Do you think it\’s that simple? A premonition of happiness, if it is sincere, will make people around you recognize you anyway. And if it comes, there is a very good chance that you will no longer be interested in convincing others of it.

I enjoy, going to parties and filling all the windows of my diary with fun. I overlook the dark circles under my eyes and alcohol is my companion as well as my social circle. So if you are headed in that direction, be sure to hit the brakes. You may just be looking for a way to drown the emotional pain of losing your partner. If alcohol is added to the mix, then you need to brake even harder. It is in these post-divorce situations that alcoholism becomes a “one-and-done.” It dulls the senses and the pain is not as great. Find the courage to face it without the alcohol high.

You won\’t miss anything! I borrowed money for a car, but it\’s worth it. Show them you can be self-sufficient. It\’s worth the feeling of superiority, even if the payments put a strain on the family\’s finances. Admit to yourself that there is a lot you are missing out on. Maybe you now regret the years you spent with someone you hate. Maybe you lack self-confidence, or maybe you are feeling nostalgic because of the impact of the property division. Maybe you have no hope that your relationship with your ex-husband will one day be repaired. Maybe you don\’t have the courage to admit how painful it is right now.

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Why bother when so many marriages are divorced? Also, do you really think it is no big deal? But yes, it\’s about you first. How well you deal with “what happened” now will give you a better chance of being happy in the future. Isn\’t it too hard on yourself to tell yourself to become a superwoman who can do the impossible right after a divorce? ……